Three weeks ago I was cruising down Hollywood, when I noticed a BMW advertisement. Most adds wouldn't catch me eye. However, this one did. It read “Joy is Youthful”. Suggesting that perhaps your best year are the ones that are lived prior to careers and kids. Where you can truly enjoy yourself because responsibility is limited and fascination is at large.
For many college and uni students, spring break couldn't come soon enough. Its smack dab, right in the middle of the semester; sandwiched between papers, midterms and stress. Many choose home as their getaway. While others resort to a hot spot.
Originally, I had the intention of traveling down the eastern seaboard of the United States. For the previous four months, myself and about ten other youth major students were planning a youth ministry oriented trip. The trip was designed to give better perspective on the art of youth ministry. The thought of acquiring this kind of practical knowledge, while making time for at least one NHL game, was exciting to think about. However, as spring break rapidly approached, I realized I was financially incapable of going. Anyone who is, or has ever been a student can surely relate. I had only half of the required amount needed to go on the trip. I was simply broke.
Many close friends were headed home, back to Moncton. I wasn't so keen. With $225.00 in pocket, the destinations were limited. I began searching the internet for tickets. There was no way I could find a return ticket from Canada to USA with that kind of change. That was the least of my worries though. I just needed an escape somewheres. I was overcome with the stress of school and that re-occurring question of God's will. One day before March break began, I bought a one way ticket from Boston – LA. At that point, I had no idea how I was getting to Boston. More importantly, I didn't know how I would return back to Sussex, where I am studying. Call my stupid.. or heaps faithful. Regardless, I just yearned for a getaway. I knew that if God wanted me back at College, He would provide that way home.
I hitched a drive to Boston with three other New Yorkers from school. The weather was hideous, as we drove through the middle of the night, in the middle of a snow storm. Though it's said that the night is always darkest before the dawn. I knew I would be arriving in sunny Los Angeles, only 15 hours later. I had no money, apart from the $25 I would inevitably give for baggage. The first 'blessing' came compliments of former US President Andrew Jackson. One of the blokes I was traveling with offered to lend me $80. This with golden, as I virtually had no money for the week.
My buddy Marco picked me up at the LAX airport that Saturday morning. I was stoked to split my time hanging out with him and Mark for the week. Two of my best mates. The first stop was hitting up 'In and Out Burger'. My favorite fast food restaurant! We proceeded to hit up Manhattan Beach for a little stroll. Ignoring the fact that there was a tsunami warning in the area. We then did star bucks for a couple hours and caught up. Marco drove me to Mark Moore's that night, as I planned to spend the first four nights in Orange County with him. It was so sweet to see Mark, as I hadn't seen the dude in like six months. The house he was flatting at was so sweet! Only one block from Newport Beach. The setup was epic.
Mark was leaving for San Diego on that Monday. As much as I wanted to go with him, I was in no condition to be spending money. My plane ticket home was still up in the air (no pun). Before leaving though, Mark hooked me up with a job doing some cleaning for a lady he met at A karaoke night. I got acquainted with Dr. Police on Monday night. She was a lovely lady who was in desperate need of someone to clean out her garage. At $15 an hour I was keen and grateful for the opportunity. That night, I also hung out with Brenton and Sarah. Two friends whom I got close with in NZ. I also went to Huntington Beach that day and watched them kite surf. That night we did a Chinese buffet. Yum Yum! Another highlight was watching indecisive Brenton attempt to find towels that would complement his blinds. This took upwards of 45 minutes, but I wasn't complaining. After all.. I was in California. That night Brenton helped me google map some directions to Dr. Police's house.
The next morning would come bright and early. I had no idea what the day would bring, besides the work I was set to do. By 8am I was peddling hard, searching for the doctors house. Little did I know, the time it took to find her house, would be an adventure in it self. As I started biking there, I ran into a homeless dude. Scored him one of my granola bars, and was on my way. Ran into another homeless bloke. Scored him one of my bars as well. I had packed some fruit, as well as a Gatorade for lunch; so I wasn't to worried about not having enough to eat. At a red light, I reached into my lunch bag to realize my Gatorade bottle has squished the banana. Furthermore, I had lost my tangerine, which must have full out of the bag. So, I was down to a Gatorade for the whole day. Working in the intense heat... tough break, Lorne. I had been biking for nearly 90 minutes when I finally swallowed my pride and asked for directions. Google map either let me down, or I was a horrible navigator. I stopped a lady who was walking her dog, and began explaining my situation; hoping she knew how to get to my destination. While we were conversing, her cute little dog got defensive and bit into my leg. As I went down in pain, she realized what had happened. Rather then seeing if I was alright, she turned around and started scolding her dog... repeatedly asking him if he had bitten me. Even though it was clearly obvious I had been, with blood cascading down my left leg.I assured her I wouldn't sue, then continued on me way. About fifteen minutes later, I found the doctors house. Finally! By the end of the day, five and half hours work translated into $100. Plus a partial drive home in Dr. Police's groovy convertible.
Marco picked me up Wednesday morning from the OC, and I spent the rest of the week with him in Hollywood. Or at least slept in Hollywood. Until I flew out the following Saturday, we traveled greater LA. The sites and sounds included various beaches and I even got a glimpse of people setting up for the Oscars in downtown Hollywood. We also lurked Disneyland in Anaheim for half a day. Malibu, Venice Beach and Santa Monica were some other beauty stops we made.
About three days before I would have been scheduled to fly home, some student funding came in from the Canadian government. It was that Thursday morning that I bought a ticket home. I knew God's provision would materialize. God to the rescue... again.
I throughly enjoyed my final few days with Marco, as I had no financial worries about how I would get back.
The last day I was in LA, the two of us took a little cruise through Beverly Hills. This part of LA notorious for rich folk. Filled with mansions consisting 200 ft palm trees in the front yard, 2-3 vehicles in the driveway, and 3-4 imported burritos catering to the owners lawn cares. The gold digger wives, with bleach blond Cleopatra haircuts and black tights, stroll the neighborhoods. The little bit of eye candy or excitement the burritos might get, as they do their monotonous work. Or catch the 45 year old mommas, with 2 pounds of caked on makeup; driving past in SUV's their husbands probably paid for in cash. The houses were classy on the outside. The inside likely told a different story.
I was reminded of a bumper stickers I saw a couple years ago, “your real treasure is in heaven”.
Marco looked over at me as we were observing the million dollar homes and said, “I will feel trapped living here”. I wouldn't blame the guy. That lifestyle could do anything but turn my crank.
“Do you think this traveling thing is a phase... something we will grow out off?”, I asked Marco. With out much hesitation, he said, “No, it will always be me. A part of who I am”. He uttered words I might never forget. Only because in that moment, I knew I wasn't alone. Maybe I don't have an unhealthy yearning to travel, I contemplated. Maybe its part of my internal makeup. Part of my identity. Maybe God can really use me through this passion I have. Maybe God is shaping me through all these experiences.